... Fuck.
That's about all I can think to say about this situation. All of a sudden, I am single again. This morning, she stopped by and said we were in different places in our lives, and moving in different directions. It basically boiled down to the old "it's not you, it's me" routine. Which can usually be translated into "it's totally you, but there's no one thing in particular I can point out that would make me say that."
I am confused as to how we can go from something so good to absolutely nothing so quickly. A week ago, we were damn near the picture of contentment. Now, I'm here in front of a computer wondering what the hell happened. The problem with a situation like this is: relationships can't be voted on. If she's not happy and wants to leave, I can't very well say "I disagree." If she wants to go, I have to let her. If this is some sort of test to see how I'd react... Well, I already told her I don't do well with the usual relationship mind-games.
So, now I have to go back to writing that paper I mentioned earlier. Good luck to me.
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2 comments:
Holy distress, Boom friend! You're so shook up that your grammar has failed you. I'll refrain from pointing out where and how in deference to your pain. And on the subject of voting: true there is no vote, but I was once vetoed when I tried to tell someone it was... well, I told them it was them (because it was). Still the veto happened. I was left gaping like the proverbial fish on dry land. Then I came up with what I thought to be the ideal solution, i.e, I moved to Montana. Since you've already discovered the folly of that plan for yourself, I'm at something of a loss for advice. My condolences and the offer of helping you get the answers is still open... if you'll let me do it my way, of course.
My theory is things were better than she expected and she got scared. In which case, it's totally her and not at all you.
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